I am trying not to be into the whole obligated holiday
thing. It may be sweet for some, but we
need our money for something else at my house.
I am excited about the “I love yous” on a daily basis. Happy that my hubby loves me 365 days a year
and not just on the one day. Happy that
my hubby provides for us, feeds us (even will go to the grocery for us), that
he takes my son to ball practice, that he mows the yard, that he chases moles,
that he is a good driver, that he is a great grill cook, that he can stand my craziness, that he is a great
dad and husband. I guess I am grateful
that he doesn’t need $100 spent on him on Valentine’s Day, he knows how I
feel.
That aside, I was very happy with the gesture from people
that did NOT have to show me their love today.
First is my beautiful teenage daughter, who at times I know
would LOVE to claim that she was adopted!
She decided to take time out of her night last night to make her family
a cake. This was the first cake that she
made all by herself from scratch. It was
a tasty cake too. I am so proud of
her!!! She’s pretty wonderful!
Then there is Cassie Rogers.
She hasn’t known me for long, but in the time that she has known me she
has embraced me and picked me up after I had been terribly hurt. She has embraced my craziness and as a matter
of a fact, I think she might be as crazy as me.
She doesn’t crowd me, she knows that I like my sleep, and she still
accepts me. She has done a few things
for me that have shocked me; people just don’t do things for people
anymore. Once she bought me some hand
gel because we were talking about it and well, she listened. Another time, she went to the movies with me
for 10 hours and she brought me a goodie bag and a Breaking Dawn pin (that I
love). And today she topped the cake,
she came to school and brought me a Valentine!!! She did not have to do
that! How wonderful is that? I don’t deserve it, but I gratefully accept
it (it was yummy too).
My point? Do I ever
have one? This time I think that I do..... just that I am grateful
for all those in my life that love me every day and NOT just Valentine’s
Day.
Yes Michelle I think I am as crazy as you!! I also did not get anything for Valentine's Day. My husband felt bad and wanted to send me flowers but I keep telling him it is ok I did not want any! I love doing things for people and I enjoy the little things!! So you are very welcome for your Valentine gift and I can't wait to go see Hunger Games!!!
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